You're fortunate in your dating history with women. I have had a woman flat-out tell me that she would never date a trans woman, because she didn't want P-in-V.
Now, this is shortsighted in two ways. First of all, what makes her think I'm even capable of P-in-V still? This thing works differently now, thanks to the hormones I've taken and continue to take. Second, do I not have fingers? And a tongue? Are they not the same as any other woman? Then why does she make the assumption of P-in-V?
Eventually, I'll get my OEM equipment replaced with a brand-new aftermarket coochie, and hopefully that'll smooth matters out a bit. But it's frustrating.